2025-06-16
Help
My app is not working had it for a year but everytime I click on the app icon it just closes won’t load. I have tried resetting my phone and reinstalling the app but nothing
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Description
Obedience is a kinky habit tracker for couples in a BDSM dynamic. Whether you've been practising kink for a long time, or you're new to the scene, Obedience will help you and your partner(s) track daily and weekly habits, and puts the dominant in charge of rewards and punishments. Couples can connect their phones, which enables one to update their habit status and spend their rewarded coins, and the other to see these real time updates and set up a reward and punishment system.
Features:
-Add your own daily or weekly habits and tasks
-Add your own punishments and rewards
-Keep track of your rules
-Live chat with partner
-Assign rewards and/or punishments to your tasks and habits.
-Give punishments and rewards automatically or manually
-Give submissive points that they can spend on rewards
-Real time sharing between dominant and submissive
-Supports multiple partners
-See stats and graphs about your habits
-Set reminder/alarm notifications (coming soon!)
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This app contains auto-renewable subscriptions.
Subscriptions will automatically renew unless canceled within 24-hours before the end of the current period. You can cancel anytime with your iTunes account settings. Any unused portion of a free trial will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription.
Privacy policy:
https://obedienceapp.com/privacy-policy
Terms and conditions:
https://obedienceapp.com/terms-of-service
What's New in Version 10.18.14
In this Obedience release (10.18.13):
- We fixed a bug when exporting/importing habit templates.
- We’ve updated the habit ideas screen.
- We improved the chat page UI.
- We’ve fixed the outdated Discord invite link.
- You can now use Apple Pencil to write in the notes section.
Seller
Name
Obedience B.V.
Information
Developer
Categories
Version
10.18.14
Size
127.6 MB
Game Center
No
VPP Device Licensing
Yes
Rating
Rated 17+ for the following:
Frequent/Intense Profanity or Crude Humour
Infrequent/Mild Sexual Content and Nudity
Frequent/Intense Mature/Suggestive Themes
Compatibility
iOS 15.0 or later
Devices
iPhone 5s, iPhone 6, iPhone 6 Plus, iPhone 6s, iPhone 6s Plus, iPhone SE, iPhone 7, iPhone 7 Plus, iPhone 8, iPhone 8 Plus, iPhone X, iPhone XR, iPhone XS, iPhone XS Max, iPhone 11, iPhone 11 Pro, iPhone 11 Pro Max, iPhone SE (2nd generation), iPhone 12, iPhone 12 Pro, iPhone 12 Pro Max, iPhone 12 mini, iPhone 13, iPhone 13 Pro, iPhone 13 Pro Max, iPhone 13 mini, iPhone SE (3rd generation), iPhone 14, iPhone 14 Plus, iPhone 14 Pro, iPhone 14 Pro Max, iPhone 15, iPhone 15 Plus, iPhone 15 Pro, iPhone 15 Pro Max, iPhone 16, iPhone 16 Plus, iPhone 16 Pro, iPhone 16 Pro Max, iPhone 16e, iPhone 17, iPhone 17Pro, iPhone 17ProMax, iPhone Air, iPad (5th Generation) Wi-Fi, iPad (5th Generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad (6th generation) Wi-Fi, iPad (6th generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Pro, iPad Pro (Cellular), iPad Pro (9.7-inch), iPad Pro (9.7-inch) (Cellular), iPad Pro 12.9-inch (2nd generation), iPad Pro 12.9-inch (2nd generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Pro (10.5-inch), iPad Pro (10.5-inch) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Pro (11-inch), iPad Pro (11-inch) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Pro 12.9-inch (3rd generation), iPad Pro 12.9-inch (3rd generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Air, iPad Air (Cellular), iPad Air 2, iPad Air 2 (Cellular), iPad Air (3rd generation), iPad Air (3rd generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad mini Retina, iPad mini Retina (Cellular), iPad mini 3, iPad mini 3 (Cellular), iPad mini 4, iPad mini 4 (Cellular), iPad mini (5th Generation), iPad mini (5th Generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad (7th generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Pro 11-inch (2nd generation), iPad Pro 11-inch (2nd generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Pro 12.9-inch (4th generation), iPad Pro 12.9-inch (4th generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Air (4th Generation) (Wi-Fi), iPad Air (4th Generation) (Wi-Fi + Cellular), iPad (8th generation) Wi-Fi, iPad (8th generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Pro 11-inch (3rd generation), iPad Pro 11-inch (3rd generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Pro 12.9-inch (5th Generation), iPad Pro 12.9-inch (5th Generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad (9th Generation), iPad (9th Generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad mini (6th Generation), iPad mini (6th Generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Air (5th generation), iPad Air (5th generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Pro 11-inch (4th generation), iPad Pro 11-inch (4th generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Pro 12.9-inch (6th generation), iPad Pro 12.9-inch (6th generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad (10th generation), iPad (10th generation) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Air 11-inch (M2) Wi-Fi, iPad Air 13-inch (M2) Wi-Fi, iPad Air 13-inch (M2) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Pro 11-inch (M4) Wi-Fi, iPad Pro 11-inch (M4) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Pro 13-inch (M4) Wi-Fi, iPad Pro 13-inch (M4) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad mini (A17 Pro) Wi-Fi, iPad mini (A17 Pro) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad (A16) Wi-Fi, iPad (A16) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Air 11-inch (M3) Wi-Fi, iPad Air 11-inch (M3) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Air 13-inch (M3) Wi-Fi, iPad Air 13-inch (M3) Wi-Fi + Cellular, iPad Pro11M5, iPad Pro11M5Cellular, iPad Pro13M5, iPad Pro13M5Cellular, iPod touch (6th Generation), iPod touch (7th generation)
Languages
English, Dutch, Finnish, French, German, Italian, Polish, Portuguese, Spanish
App Store: Customer Ratings
Ratings & Reviews
4.6 of 5 (235 Ratings)
App Store: Customer Reviews
2025-06-12
Good app
It’s a great app for tracking reward and punishments, but no good if tasks are completed just before the deadline and then recorded as late.
2025-05-07
Didn’t
I don’t understand the app
2025-03-08
Tasks
Great app although now all my tasks for my sub’s has disappeared has something gone wrong on the app ?
2024-12-27
Great for procrastinators who are into BDSM
Due to mental health, I have bad habits and struggle to be healthier. However, me and my partner/dom now use this app where I get reward points, to buy rewards, for healthy habits done! The punishments are fun and motivating but the app is flexible and you don’t have to have punishments. I really enjoy this app and it brought me closer to him🩷. However it is annoying you have to pay for each person, and it is not cheap. Also it can be fiddly at first but once you work it out, it works well.
2024-11-20
Bdsm habit tracker
Great app perfect for distance domination
2024-11-03
👍
👍
2024-10-12
Great app
Great for long distance dynamics and for keeping track of rules and making daily and weekly tasks for sub
2024-09-17
Great
Great app 10/10
2024-09-02
Love it
Its brilliant, so fun with my partner and helps me stay on task it covers all your kinky needs
2024-08-13
Brilliant app to connect D/s couples
Perfect for Doms wanting to manage their sub
2024-07-27
love it
me and my boyfriend use it daily and recommend getting subscription add new habits daily
2024-07-25
Keeps all the things fresh
Really helpful to keep a long distance relationship fresh.
2024-06-08
Scam
Scam app linked with fraud
2024-04-18
Good fun
You have to be inventive but this can be a really fun way to keep your partner focused and incentivised!
2024-04-10
Great app
Love it
2024-04-10
Useful
Really easy to use and really enjoy the app makes life so much easier to follow rules and limits
2024-03-03
Do i exist?
I cant sign up because my email is in use but i cant sign in because my email isnt in use
2024-02-24
Brilliant
I love this app as my gf keep me on track with it
As I Have ADHD and FASD it is sometimes hard to keep track and keep focused on one thing at one time but this helps me a lot in these situations
2024-02-24
Good
I think it’s amazing
2024-02-04
Keeping inline
Very good app with a fair amount of freedom with setting tasks and rules to follow, we are enjoying this app at the moment
2024-01-29
Really helpful but also aligned.
I love this and it really helps me with focus and structure. The fact that my Dom can remove permissions for me to edit parts of it is also pretty hot.
2024-01-04
Very good tracker app
Very good app to have a visual display for habits, punishments and rewards
2023-12-18
Excellent!
my Lord and His toy enjoy this app. It is very customisable and an excellent way to keep track of tasks, rewards and punishments.
my Lord’s only suggestions would be:
• to add somewhere to list rules for vanilla/medium/high protocol
• add a ‘training’ section which is separate to daily tasks for my Lord’s requirements.
Premium subscription is excellent value and highly recommend the app. It is especially helpful to those new to the scene
2023-12-13
Very good for couples
Me and the other half love using this app and it brings us closer together.
2023-12-12
Fabulous check in and task management
We love this app! We’ve been able to use it to set tasks and monitor habits across a spectrum of activities in our spicy life, and the messaging facility within the app helps us maintain our spicy personas safely without fear of sending messages inadvertently to group chats on WhatsApp etc. There’s a whole array of variables when setting tasks and an excellent points system with encouraging pop ups to help keep you on track. It’s perfect for our needs!
2023-11-23
Great app!
Does the trick!
2023-11-12
Love it!
I love this app so much. If you're in a D/S dynamic you should definitely be using this 😃
2023-11-04
Great app
Myself and my partner use this a lot, it’s helped with being long distance and keeping each other aware and on task as well as being able to earn points and have loads “fun” when we get to see each other next.
2023-10-31
Useful
It’s good, it’s hard to forget to do my tasks thanks to the reminders and the notes section is handy for quick reminders and such
2023-10-22
Perfect for Ds couples!
I’m new to this scene, so my sub has been guiding me, she introduced me to this and I’m obsessed!! We love it!! The punishments, rewards and habits work very well!
2023-08-05
Password
It’s a very good app. The only downfall is I think it the passcode and discreet options should be available to those who don’t get the premium upgrade
2023-07-30
App
I absolutely love using this app and have done so for a few months with various different doms. Best app and even better because free.
2023-07-27
A great app. Very creative
Played with the app for over a year. Takes a little while to get your head around it, but it is for great creative play.
2023-07-18
It’s alright
I like how easy the app is to use, one thing I wish was of doing a task once a day I wasn’t being added punishments for only doing it once? Also a chance for a ‘day off’ as not all tasks are every day so I’m not claiming points for a day off
2023-07-07
Good app but still
The fact that my partner thinks I need a app to keep me in line is ridiculous I don’t need to earn points to mange what I want
2023-07-05
It’s good… but…!!!
Its a good app but sorry, there is no way it can justify cost of Premium, £20 EACH and PER YEAR!! Only 2 Premium benefits are actually any use. Make it £10 each, one-off perpetual licence and we’re in. (And that’s still the most expensive app I’ve ever bought!)
A few minor points too…
• Although there is a work-around - there isn’t a ‘no time’ custom option to use as a task/reward when completed at random times. Workaround is to set time to expire almost immediately, mark as ‘Done’ and then it becomes a time’ ‘no task.
• No way to retrospectively set a task as paused to maintain accurate current streak. Have to set as complete then deduct points/rewards as necessary.
• Colour of the ‘buy’ button isn’t distinct enough between enabled and disabled. This might be solved in the other colour scheme but I like the black/red anyway and unlikely to change.
• Every instance of the word ‘submissive’ should be in lowercase.
2023-06-28
So Useful
Absolutely amazing application, so useful and you do not have to buy permium to be able to utilise it
2023-06-28
Works for our needs
Works well! Premium was worth it.
2023-06-25
Fun App
This app is fun to use and a great way to keep our dynamic when apart. It would be good if Dom could set reminders for sub as well
2023-06-17
Excellent
really good app for long distance relationships, as well as not so long distance ones
2023-06-13
Quick response
We have been using the app since the beginning of the year. It works well and if there are any problems the help team has a quick response time with the problem always being sorted, so great customer service.
2023-06-07
Keeps you in line
As long as your Dom is smart enough to get proof. 5/5
2023-05-22
Worked great until it didn’t
This was a fantastic app, myself and my Dom both loved it. Unfortunately I am now unable to open the app, even after deleting and reinstalling. There seems to be no way to report the issue, get in touch with the developer, or be refunded for the premium I paid for and am now unable to use.
2023-05-22
Amazing
Absolutely great app. My partner and I love it and it’s fun to do the achievements they set you and collect what ever reward you chose after building up your points. I also love that you can see how they are going to punish you but you don’t know when and it leaves you in suspense.
2023-05-12
Great idea
Me and my dominant live quite far apart so she got this app as an idea to keep me in line from a distance. It’s great fun, brings us closer and makes things really exciting when we are together.
2023-05-03
Love it
Great little app to keep us on track in our dynamic
2023-05-03
best app (worst app for the brats)
me and my dom absolutely love it
2023-02-23
Review of obedience
I really like this app as it’s great for Ms based couples. Has some nice features eg tracking habits. It’s well designed and has some good features. I hope it stays around as it’s a really helpful tool.
2022-10-28
Punishments system needs explaining in more detail
The app as a whole is great like I love my sub having to earn points to earn rewards, but the punishments page needs more info on how it all works because I don’t know if I’m supposed to check it off if they’ve done the punishment or to let them know they have a punishment or if the sub is supposed to check it off if they’ve done the punishment
2022-09-18
It’s pretty good
I will say premium makes it so much better, and I really wish I could get it right now.
I wish there were simple colour customisations for free because i really don’t like black and red 😰
But other than that my only thing I’m feeling i need is a way to request permission for things that my partner can be notified about.
2022-06-15
Very good app!
This app is perfect, mummy can organise my week and check up on me when she’s at work!
2021-08-19
I paid for premium and it didn’t give it me!!!!
I thought the app was great till this happened and it taken money off me now 😡😡
2021-07-19
Obedience Review
I love everything about this app, but the voice message option. I don’t think that It should be a thing because you’d have your sub or Dom’s number anyway, or you should at least have an option where you can turn It off. It can be quite annoying If pressed accidentally.
But I love this app. It’s helped keep my submissive on schedule with her tablets and such while I’m away at work or cannot call her on the phone.
Well done.
You’ve done quite well for a solo developer.
2021-06-22
Could be better
I like the task setting part.
I like the reward system part.
But the punishment bit could work better, I want him to be able to tick it off as done and be notified when he has a punishment to do when he’s not done a task.
Almost a great app.
2021-01-27
i have an issue!
i have the yearly subscription but it’s not letting me access the themes or discreet icon! could this be fixed? thank you!
2020-11-14
Good app and responsive developer
Mistress and i have been using the app a few weeks. Its really great for O/our M/s lifestyle and much better than using google tasks. We had an issue with tasks being displayed and reported this to the developer who was very responsive and agreed to fix in his next update. Highly recommended!
2020-09-10
Some suggestions but so far a good app
This app is perfect for keeping my sub in line when not around and for helping her earn rewards .
But a few things could maybe be changed or worked on
1. On the any screen it would be good to maybe shrink the list so they can all be seen on the same screen
2. More options in themes
3.when not putting a description for something it would be good to have it blank instead of “no description”
2020-08-21
Theme
It’s a really good app and me and my dominant are so glad we found this app. Just wondering why I can’t change the theme of the app when there is an option for it 🧐
2020-04-30
Great concept but doesn’t always work
Sometimes even when a habit has been ticked it will log as not done and leave an empty circle... not sure what’s going on.