Welcome to self-care with a conscience - where science, spirituality, and sustainability are brunch buddies. Self-Helpless explores all things on the cutting edge of personal and collective growth with leading specialists who share paradigm-shifting insights every week. Hosted by Delanie Fischer, who's recognized by listeners for her casual but fluff-free approach, Self-Helpless has been described as if Rich Roll and Rainn Wilson had a much less eloquent (but also pretty fun) podcast baby.
New episodes every Monday, Wednesday & Friday - making your commutes, tasks, or bedtime existential crisis more majestic.
Finally a self help podcast that makes me feel like a normal human being!!
2022-04-05
So relatable, helpful, reassuring and funny
I came across this podcast during lockdown in New York March 2020. I had only been living in the city for a year working in advertising and my long term boyfriend was back home in London. During this time i honestly binged the show and Taylor, Delanie and Kelsey became my companions during this difficult time. It was so refreshing to hear how other personalities similar to mine dealt with all things life and career. The girls are so relatable and funny and honestly has kept me going through a lot of difficult times. Self-helpless lead me onto books like Big Magic and the Artist way, and has been such a motivation to keep pursuing my passion for music. (Which has proven to be the best decision ever.)The podcast has become my go-to therapeutic ritual during my walks and I’ve recommended it to soooo many people. Thanks for doing what you’re doing!!! Suchi x
2021-09-19
I cannot recommend this podcast enough
I accidentally stumbled upon this podcast after seeing Taylor’s Netflix special and now I cannot stop listening. These girls are so relatable yet hilarious and often tackle really difficult subjects of conversation in a really respectful and mindful way while still being so entertaining. I cannot recommend this podcast enough. Definitely give them a listen it’s what everybody needs to hear.
2020-12-08
This is. How they do it !
What w treat ! Ladies know hype to smash any topic to the prices, conversation don’t have to be looong and boing, makes My day so many times !!
How to walk through a problems..?! Give it to “Self-Helpless”
2020-12-02
Is this what having friends is like?
Absolutely LOVE this podcast! I usually get bored of things and go through stages with what I listen to. But the wide variety of topics and hilarious hosts mean I just keep coming back to this one and it never fails to make me smile. I started out listening to all the key topics that relate to me and I have just kept going and broadened my horizons with topics I wouldn’t normally look into as it’s so addicting. As someone who had trouble at school and doesn’t have those ‘best friends’ that most people have to natter with from the good old days, and has struggled to make any since, this definitely fills a void. Y’all keep me company on my way to and from work and help me go to sleep each night feeling entertained, warm, supported and more confident and comfortable in myself, my life and my own self improvement journey. Thanks girls 💕
2020-09-24
Covid Saviours
I found this podcast just as lockdown started and I’m so glad I did!
I’m quiet and am usually quite happy being a fly on the wall but working from home due to Covid has turned that into near complete isolation, sometimes going days without speaking to someone other than my partner who I live with (and who I also can’t thank enough for keeping me sane). My whole family and ‘closest’ friends live on the other side of the world so time differences mean I don’t get to speak to them very often and see them even less.
Finding this podcast full of lovely, empowering, relatable women has been a lifesaver for me. You’ve become my surrogate coworkers, allowing me to focus on my work (preventing me from being fired for not delivering) and listening to you all happily chat away keeps me sane. The version on you tube makes me feel like I’m with friends in times when I’m particularly low. You’re all so honest about the problems you face I feel less ashamed of my own. I’ve learned so much from you all and your amazing guests and as well as keeping me company I’ve also grown a lot as a person because of you all as well.
Thank you so much for everything.
2020-08-11
Amazing topics
Discovered this podcast a few months ago. I love it so much - so open-minded honest and funny 💚 thanks guys x
2020-05-26
Just get straight to the point already!
Gotta give it 3 stars after hearing your podcast on the secret. Took me 3mins or so to figure out when the actual topic starts as you blabbed on for a good 20mins +.
Would be helpful for future reference to quote in your brief when your episode starts. Other than that keep it up 👍🏼
2020-04-14
A godsend in a pandemic
I found this podcast about two weeks into lockdown, and I cannot even begin to explain how much it has restored my sanity! Listening to these three hilarious friends discussing life experiences and self-help approaches has made me feel like I'm back with my friends and it's just another girls night in. LOVE LOVE LOVE, I am currently recommending this podcast to every person that is in my phone contacts!
2020-03-24
they sassed me into reviewing but i luv them
absolute sweethearts, always listen to them before sleepy sleepy time bc this podcast is super friendly and helpful. ive been skeptical abt self-help stuff before, it fills me with pure anxiety, but it's not heavy to listen to or anything as it's interspersed with fun chats
2019-09-18
An amazing pick me up podcast
Absolutely love this podcast! Speaking about important topics while making it funny and relatable ! Perfect podcast to listen on ur down days!!! Keep doing you ❤️❤️❤️
2019-07-04
My gyals!!
I can’t remember how I came across you guys but you guys are so great!!!!!!!!!!! I love the podcasts and the honesty you guys provide is amazing!
2019-04-20
Simply the best... 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Hello Delanie, Taylor and Kelsey!
I honestly just thought it was about time I left you the 5 star review you ladies deserve! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Never in my wildest dreams did I think you could love a podcast as much as I love selfhelpless. I discovered you three wonderful women back in March this year and was instantly hook, line and sinkered listening 2 podcasts a day until I completely caught up. I love how honest you all are about life and experiences and the good and the bad. I really do feel think I connect with you girls on so many levels, especially you Delanie 🙈! Even though we have never met! I’m Irish but live in London so if you are ever over in the UK touring or whatever let me know! Séana (pronounced Shana) x
2019-03-06
Love ❤️
I’m a little late to the party but I’m loving this podcast so far! So relatable and funny, makes me feel like I’m a normal weirdo for all these thoughts and ideas I have! Thanks! 😘
2018-12-03
REFRESHINGGGG!!
I LOVED THIS PODCAST! You trio of women are awesome, taking what can be boring or awkward subjects and bringing your 'oooohhhs and ahhhs' and sense of fun. Much needed and very refreshing! :)
2018-11-05
Love it
I am so busy so I don’t get much time with my friends, so this gives me much needed break and girl talk not to mention broaden my horizons, totally relatable. Imposter syndrome: the life hype is real
2018-09-27
Besties
I discovered Self Helpless over a year ago when I was on a minimalism kick (plot twist: still a terrible hoarder 😫) and I’m so glad I did. I’ve been depressed for over two years and Self Helpless has been there through the medication, the therapy, and the two weeks in January when the doctor signed me off on sick leave. It’s a cliche with podcasts and online personalities but you really do feel like Kelsey, Delanie and Taylor are your friends because they speak so honestly and are so close with each other. The Patreon is even better because of the trust level they have with us Helpsters! Basically, I feel less alone with my perfectionism, anxiety, depression and general control freakness when I listen to this, and I can’t wait to have my very own Dicks by Delanie DICK MUG 🍆🥕🥖🌽🍌🌶🌭. Thanks for everything ladies 💕
2018-07-18
Mindless, Obnoxious, Offensive
Careless, half-googled self-help discussion without the support of someone with expertise or experience only contributes to the massive stigma and misunderstanding people actually with these issues have to endure everyday. The episode on Borderline Personality Disorder specifically contains wildly insensitive generalisations that is incredibly damaging and should not have been broadcasted without full and balanced research.
2018-06-03
I love it!
Proper life enhancing stuff; brings a smile to my face every time without fail. Amazing!
2017-12-12
Stumbled Across, Happy To Stay!
I stumbled across this podcast whilst looking for a review on the War of Art book!
Found the presenter, funny, honest and at times outrageous which was hilarious! As a speaker in the Education market I have to use comedy to reach the students so hearing from comedians about their journey and creative process is awesome!
Also a welcome break from the personal development and marketing podcasts which I love but sometimes just need to breathe!