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It's Gemma Speaking

It's Gemma Speaking

Released: 2025-06-02
© Gemma Matin 2025
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5 Episodes
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5 Episodes
Audio
Listen on Apple Podcasts
Released: 2025-06-02
© Gemma Matin 2025
Most Recent Episode
Empowered Vulnerability: Communicating Needs EARLY In Dating

Empowered Vulnerability: Communicating Needs EARLY In Dating

This week’s episode is a raw and empowering one — I'm taking you behind the scenes of some recent dating dynamics I’ve experienced and the lessons that emerged from communicating my needs in real-time, early on in dating. We often associate “com
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This week’s episode is a raw and empowering one — I'm taking you behind the scenes of some recent dating dynamics I’ve experienced and the lessons that emerged from communicating my needs in real-time, early on in dating.
We often associate “communicating our needs” with being in a relationship. But what about when we’re dating?
I share real-life stories of:
Navigating a push-pull dynamic with an avoidant partner (and how it reactivated an old fear of abandonment).Sending empowered, respectful messages to close energetic loops.The surprising difference between fearing someone else abandoning you… and the much deeper fear of abandoning yourself.Why dating multiple people with clarity and respect is okay – and how to do it right.How consistency and communication are the markers of aligned connection.This episode is a gentle call to action — to stop performing the “cool girl” role and start honouring your truth. Because you deserve to be met, seen, and valued from the very beginning.
💌 Topics we explore:
How avoidant partners can trigger anxious attachment patternsMy personal texting boundary and why it mattersSelf-reflection questions when fears resurfaceThe right way to express disinterest without ghostingWhy clear communication inspires men🎧 Tune in to hear the exact scripts I used, the behind-the-scenes of these dynamics, and how I returned home to myself — again and again.
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Episode ID: 1000710869607
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Release Date: 02/06/2025, 13:33:48

Description

A podcast where we speak about healing relationships, and how to create the space for more love, joy, and peace in our lives,
Gemma is a trauma & healing informed practitioner whose work is underpinned by neuroscience, psychology, and spiritual principles that enable clients to heal and release anxiety and trauma at the deepest level for lasting change.

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